Loving someone is loving them as a whole. There are things you love about them. And things that you are not fond of. We try to embrace every aspect of them. You learn to love them.
But what if your loved one is doing something to harm themselves? What would you do at that point? Do you intervene? What is your intervention?
Communicate and put a voice to your thoughts. If they don't want to listen or ignore your love and your opinion. Or they may thank you and make a change in their lifestyle. Sometimes they may keep their promise and change their habits. But is this just a temporary or permanent change?
You may often hear people say that their spouses bring out the better in them. But what if something worse is brought out? What do you do then?
